The press attention got so bad that the glam couple thought about hiring three fake brides to put in different places to fool the cameras.
The showbiz pair were due to marry at a glitzy estate in the hills near Santa Barbara, California.
No new date
400 guests had reportedly been invited to the lavish ceremony but J-Lo and Ben had kept tight-lipped about the details.
A source said it's definitely just a delay and the couple haven't cancelled the wedding for good.
But they haven't said when they might eventually get married.
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