"When I was a child, it was more harmonious, there was more family life, more discipline, and we were closer," says Bani.
"I had to be home by 4pm to read the Koran with father, and I wasn't allowed out after that."
His boys seem perfectly behaved, but Bani worries. "It's different now," he says. "My children have a 'So what?' attitude."
Words: Lucy Williamson. Photos: Kemal Jufri.
Photo journals: Family life