This is one of six photo journals published as part of the BBC's Future Family week, exploring the changing nature of family life.
Bani and Inah live in the sprawling neighbourhood of Warung Buncit in south Jakarta.
They have three sons - 14-year-old Sofyan, Randika, 10, and little Raditia, two.
Bani works as a driver and Inah is a housewife. They moved to this house a year ago, and are still doing it up - something Bani says he only gets time for on Sundays.