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Thursday, 12 April, 2001, 09:59 GMT 10:59 UK
Rwanda's tug-of-war children
By Olenka Frenkiel
Fifteen year old Gerard is struggling with his French at a school for orphans in Kigali. Like many Rwandans who survived the genocide of 1994, he has deep machete scars on his head and hands.
Sitting at his desk in this French class, he's looking a bit forlorn because, unlike most Rwandans, Gerard lived in Rome for six years until one day last September, he was told, "Tomorrow you go back to Rwanda".
It was a shock. Rwanda was where his neighbours had tried to hack him to death when he was only nine years old.
"I loved her very much. After six years in a family home - to find out that you'll have to leave them and your friends the next day and never see them again is really, really sad"
"The ambience, the atmosphere, the fun, the pizza - it's too expensive for us here - the snow in the mountains, swimming in the sea. They promised me I could finish my studies in Italy and then come back but they cheated me.
"My Italian family write to me but I have no money to write back. They promised me if I study hard they will help me return to Italy. This is what I hope. If I could, I would go there tomorrow."
Forty one children remain in Italy
Many of the scores of children airlifted to safety during those few short murderous months of '94 have returned. But 41 children are still in Italy.
Even though they have surviving relatives back in Rwanda, they've been adopted by Italian families determined not to let them go. And now they're the subject of a huge diplomatic row between the two countries. Last November Rwanda's President Paul Kagame went to Rome and demanded their return.The Rwandans now say they're going to sue - that the adoptions are illegal and the children have been kidnapped.
Bonaventure traced her through the International Red Cross. He wrote a letter asking for her back. But he heard nothing. Then last year he learnt she'd been adopted by an Italian family.
But why, I ask, if you can't care for her, must she return?
"So that she can know her brothers and sisters," he says. "If she grows up in Italy she will never know us. I'm getting old and might die."
The legality of the adoptions
In the Social Affairs Ministry, I am shown the letters many of their relatives wrote searching for the children.
Rwanda's Attorney General, Gerard Gahima says they'll go to court. "The case illustrates the arrogance of Italian Government Institutions and Law Enforcement Agencies that presume, because a country is poor, that it can take their children."
"We do not regard the adoption by strangers with no statutory process as legal - in fact we consider them to have been kidnapped. We do not rule out the possibility of adoption for some - but let them come and make application to the courts and social services departments - so do it by law.."
Wall of silence
But from the families' lawyer, Cesare Trebeschi, I hear a bombshell. At the time of the adoptions, he tells me, the Brescia Court was presented with all the evidence for and against the adoptions. Including the letters from the Rwandan relatives who wanted the children back.
Before leaving, I'm shown a video of the babies back in 94 when they first arrived in Italy and I begin to understand the incredible force which has lead these people to break the rules. Around a brilliant Hockney-blue swimming pool, a host of plump black cherubs shriek and splash with pleasure. With them is a phalanx of doting Italian matrons.
There is something disturbing about this footage. Perhaps it is the voracious glee with which this sleek rich world is devouring these exquisite Rwandan putti. It's as if the desire to keep these babies in a country with the lowest birth-rate in the world, was just too much for these baby-starved women.
Serri's surprising admission
In Rome, Riino Serri, the Under secretary for Foreign Affairs, tries to play his joker. The separation of powers under the Italian Constitution, he says, forbids him to interfere with decisions of the courts. I must talk to the judges.
"But that's where I came from and they sent me to you" I protest. "Anyway what if your judges breach your obligations under the Hague Convention?" "Then the Rwandans must take it to a higher court." "But", I reply, "the Attorney General of Rwanda says they've been kidnapped."
I am beginning to irritate him. He abandons his formula. "There is no kidnapping here. These kids were welcomed to our country at a very dramatic time. Ninety three have gone home. We will have to ascertain the legality of the adoptions of those still here."
"So these children might go back?" "I think they could," he says. "I think it's probable."
I have to hide my surprise. This is a scoop.
Incredulous, I ask, "Children who have lived all their lives here are going to be sent back to Rwanda? How's that going to go down with their new families in Brescia?"
So there is a solution, if the parents are prepared to co-operate. I don't believe, after all this time that anyone really wants to force these children to go home. But for the Rwandans, it's a question of dignity, of being shown some respect. It's a risk but if the Italian families move now and take the children to Rwanda to make these adoptions legal, I believe they'll get to keep them. But if they delay - and let it go to court, virtually every precedent says - they'll lose.
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