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Friday, 29 March, 2002, 18:58 GMT
When baby won't sleep
![]() Holly Muirhead kept her mother Alison awake
Sleepless nights are the bane of every new parent's life. But in some cases the nightmare drags on for years, not months. Jane Elliott spoke to one mother about her battle for sleep.
For two years Holly Muirhead kept her parents awake. Refusing to sleep in her own bed, crying and staying awake, she was not an easy child. Her mother Alison didn't have a life of her own. Holly needed constant attention at night and the one time her mother did try leaving her with a baby sitter she cried so much she made herself sick.
Holly ruled the roost and her sleeping patterns looked set to ensure she remained an only child. Taking a toll Her mother said: "She wouldn't sleep without someone in the bed. She always had her own bed or a cot. But she would wake up every night anything from once or twice to three or four times a night. "It got so bad at times that we went through phases of sleep deprivation. "I never went back to work because when I should have done there was no way I felt I could because I was so tired. I didn't feel I could get up in the mornings. "We never had any evenings to ourselves. She could go to bed one minute and then be up in an hour saying, 'Where are you?' "I couldn't go out in the evenings because I couldn't leave her. " Holly insisted on still being breast fed at night making it even more difficult for her mother to break free. "By the age of one I thought was this ever going to stop." Clinic After doing some research she found a sleep clinic run by two former health visitors and soon Holly was sleeping through the night. Mandy Gurney and Tracey Marshall used to run their London-based sleep clinics through the NHS, but now they have their own private clinic, Millpond. One of a number of dedicated sleep clinics around the country, some run on the NHS, they help parents break the poor sleep cycle by retraining parents and children into better sleeping patterns. After an initial consultation with parents, they study a detailed sleep diary before suggesting a new routine to train the child to sleep. This is followed up by monitoring and support for parents. Ms Gurney said some parents become desperate after years and years of broken sleep. Their health becomes vulnerable with some developing skin problems and nervous tics due to lack of sleep. Hazard
But Ms Gurney said many problems can be quickly solved, others take a few weeks. She decided to start working on sleep problems after problems with her own child. Despite being a health visitor she found nowhere to get advice and decided to set up a sleep clinic. "Some babies do sleep through the night very early on, but others can take longer. "The older the child we see the longer it often takes to solve their problems, but some of the small babies can be sorted very quickly." Key pointers like ensuring the child is put to sleep while still awake and making sure you do not always rock your baby to sleep, or staying in the room while she is sleeping, teach the child independence and means that when they wake up in the middle of the night they are able to go back to sleep alone. Within three days of visiting the sleep clinic Mrs Muirhead had Holly's problems cracked. She said that things have improved so much that she is now pregnant again and expecting her second child within the next few weeks. But she is determined that this time the new baby will be in a sleep routine from day one. |
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