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Friday, January 16, 1998 Published at 11:50 GMT Talking Point Has Diana's death changed Britain? Your reaction <% ballot="" ' Check nothing is broken broken = 0 if ballot = "" then broken = 1 end if set vt = Server.Createobject("mps.Vote") openresult = vt.Open("Vote", "sa", "") ' Created object? if IsObject(vt) = TRUE then ' Opened db? if openresult = True AND broken = 0 then ballotresult = vt.SetBallotName(ballot) ' read the vote votetotal=(vt.GetVoteCount(ballot, "yes")+vt.GetVoteCount(ballot, "no")) if votetotal <> 0 then ' there are votes in the database numberyes = vt.GetVoteCount(ballot, "yes") numberno = vt.GetVoteCount(ballot, "no") percentyes = Int((numberyes/votetotal)*100) percentno = 100 - percentyes ' fix graph so funny graph heights dont appear 'if percentyes = 0 then ' percentyes = 1 'end if 'if percentno = 0 then ' percentno = 1 'end if else ' summut went wrong frig it numberyes = 0 numberno = 0 percentyes = 50 percentno = 50 end if end if end if %> Votes so far:
I would hope that Diana's death has changed the minds of people all over the world. But I hope that the monarchy will become more "people", like the Princess. I don't want to see her boys swallowed up by the 'firm'.
When Diana died the whole world wept. Never in my fifty years have I seen such an outpouring of emotion when someone has died. She was not a saint but she
was a very human person that touched the lives of so many. She was not afraid or
appalled by the poor and sick. She hugged and touched them and gave them
encouragement when no one else would. She let the world see that she was not
just a princess dressed in glamorous clothes but a real and human person that
cares for others even in times of personal problems. I think we all saw a part
of Diana in ourselves whether it was that we had similar problems or
admiration for her position as a princess or a loving mother. God Bless you, Diana.
Diana's death showed not just how the British public had truly made her the
'Queen of their hearts", but also revealed that something more serious is
absent from life in the modern British society. I would not presume to say
what that might be for others, but for myself I in this new year will address the
question in my own life. We recognised in Diana a special value not often
seen.
Not only did Diana's death change Britian, but so did her life! She was a warm human being in a cold family. She was open to all people from all religions, colours and walks of life, in a family that only allow white, upper-class noble Protestants to marry in... Diana in life represented a modern, more caring Royal Family the citizens wanted. And in return the Royal Family were true to their history...You dont cross the Royals and keep your head. Now that she's gone, The Royals are forced to pay attention. God Bless You Diana. Diana's death prompted the biggest display of public grief that I can
remember. I find this a regrettable indication of just how disconnected people are from their communities. That it requires some public spectacle for people to find a shallow common ground with their neighbors is a sad sign of our times.
Diana's death hasn't changed the people of Britain. A little shock and a
couple of weeks of group induced moping helped some vent buried emotions - but
by and large it only served to demonstrate how the media can manipulate the
emotional responses of people shocked at an unexpected turn of events.
In my response I answered 'yes' to the
question 'Has Diana's death changed Britain',
I'm not so sure if its changed Britain
in a whole but it has changed, or maybe,
it is changing the Royal family.
The profound nature of the response of people around the world cannot be
ignored by the Royal Family.
My own feelings, as a long term Royalist were immediately changed.
I blame them entirely for Princess Diana's death. A theory abounds, The Royal
Family did not want Diana marrying a Muslim and being the stepfather to the
heir to the thrown.
Theory or not, I have turned my back on the Royal Family and will never
forgive them.
Diana's death brought about a long overdue change in public feeling towards the establishment which no longer affects real lives.
Upon visiting Scotland nearly a month after the tragic accident,
I still met people in a state of shock and deep bereavment.
On the flight home, I as well as the rest cried during the
BBC video aired on the plane.
From an over ocean view, it seems that the Monarchy is truly trying to
shift gears and become less remote. I hope that they have a successful go of
it.
I hope things have changed some, but cannot see everyone changing. I have changed since then and I am not British. She did a lot of good things. We can only hope that the good she started will continue.
I agree that when Diana died it touched the world and as I told my son , when
Diana died the world cried.
The one hope of comfort throughout all that strange outpouring of grief, is
that maybe, the Thatcherite dictat that there is no such thing as "SOCIETY"
was wrong. People DO belong in a social group and will ultimately pull together. Perhaps Dianas death was the excuse for a natonal "GROUP HUG" that people had
been waiting for, for the last couple of decades.
I would like to think that one of the few good things to come from Diana's
death was that Britons felt a bit more free to express themselves.
British reserve is world famous and quite admirable. It's a trait that has
helped the British survive incredible adversity such as the Blitz of WWII.
But Diana's passing was perhaps a bittersweet reminder that there are some things (and some people) that are so precious they are worth crying for.
I think it did. But more at a very personal level - and not only in Britain. I
believe this happened in many other corners of an increasingly globalized
world. We are a great and large family, it took us a long time to realize such
a transformation. Therefore, we tend to project our happiness or sorrow across
political borders. This would not have happened fifty years ago. It's not just
the media, there's more than that. So I believe...
Not a day goes by when I don't think of her and her children - I still read and watch anything on her that I can - in a way I think it's because I can't truly
believe that she has finally gone.
I feel the death of Diana has changed Britain. And regardless of change, the
grief expressed was genuine, not "mindless sentimentality". Those comments
come from cold emotionless people.
It seemed that the world was caught up
in a tide of collective grief in the
period following Diana's death. While
it is true she is no longer a topic of
daily conversation in our lives. I receive
testimonials and evidence each day that
show conclusively that the world is indeed
a different place now. As an American, I believe
her death will be compared with that of JFK
and another part of our collective soul has
been wounded as a result.
I am not being funny but I don't think Diana's death has changed Britain a
bit. People have resumed to their normal routine of hating each other and not
caring for one another.This was what she tried to put across before she died.
Charles seems to realize his children need the attention and time.
He also looks like it does not upset him to do a couple of the things that
Diana did with the boys. (Like the concerts for example.)
I really hope that all the royal family start to have more contact with their
subjects.
I really don't know whether the death of the Princess of Wales has, and will,
change Britain. I believe that her greatest legacy will be showing the
British
people and the world alike, that it is alright to show emotion in public.
That
at the end of the day, we are all humans and have nothing to be ashamed of
for
'crying' or 'hugging' in public. It happened four months ago, her legacy and memories will live on. It is now
time for life to continue, as she would have wanted, and enjoy the lesson that
she taught us.
I think Diana's death has brought about some measure of change,
but I also think it's part of a wider much bigger movement of
change which has been happening for a couple of years now.
From road protestors to people against live animal exports, and
from a move to ban hand-guns to a determination to act against
crime, I have noticed a fundamental change taking place in which a
great many people in the mainstream of society who would
never have thought of vocalising and standing up for their opinions
now seem to see it as their duty. I think Diana's death has been
one of the focuses in this new era, and I wonder whether - had
her death come three or four years earlier - whether the same
visible outpouring of sympathy would have been nearly so dramatic.
I have become more acutely aware of the importance of not squandering
our time in this life. I feel I am more sensitive to the human condition and
think that no deeds are truly more pertinent than those performed in service
to the improvement of the quality of being on Earth.
Though she was always a distant lighthouse in my life, I am still terribly
saddened by the loss of Diana, and her beacon will never cease to light the
way to a compassionate homestead. ("Perhaps, over all, there is a great
motherhood as common longing" R.M. Rilke.)
If you have counters on your web-site, you should know this anyway.
Just by counting the number of hits on the Diana and the Queen's speech will
give you an idea of the impact Diana had.
That intelligence, if not too strong a word, should allow the Establishment to
manipulate the public into believing that they now have a more compassionate
monarchy, upper house, judiciary, aristocracy and everything else that depends
on convincing these poor, sentimental people that their best interests are
being served.
Despite all this, Diana has had an effect. She has brought the non-Anglo Saxon
British into the fold, who mourn her as their champion. She has shown that
glamour and style doesn't necessarily have to be superficial. She has made us
feel proud again of being British.
Yes she has had an effect.
I find it tragic that the death of one overly-wealthy, publicity-seeking self-server should so obsess a nation that the death a short time
later of Mother Theresa went largely unnoticed. Mother Theresa was far more
deserving of our outpourings of grief and should have engendered a greater
sense of loss. She gave up everything of herself to help those whom no-one
else
would help. Because of this she was not rich, she was not beautiful, she was
not glamorous, so she did not make for such interesting news coverage. I feel
we need to readjust our values if they allow us to elevate Diana almost to
sainthood while we forget about a woman who was all that Diana wished to be
seen as.
Because she was the most influencial
character for British people and whole
world.
In spite of the utter tragedy of the death of Diana, Princess of Wales, it
appears life goes on in the UK. There are more tributes to her in the USA!
Diana's death has awoken Britain from its doldrums. The impact it would have
made on young Britons will develop into an inspired concern for the needy and
vulnerable globally. Her name will always be twinned with Mother Teresa - the
harmony of the opposites in search of peace for humanity.
We were briefly engulfed in a tide of mindless sentimentality. Hopefully this
has passed.
No, Britain and indeed the rest of the
world have not changed. We feel her loss, yet just four months
after her death we are still filling
our cupboards with more food and drink
than we can consume. We tucked
into our huge turkeys and washed it down
with liquor and then slumped down in front
of the telly to capture even more images
of Diana's funeral and some of us cried
again. Yet people are still starving in
the third world and very few care. Our outpouring of grief at Diana's death, what
was it all about? We showed
the world how proud we are to have
someone like Diana in our country but
I would like to think there is a little
of Diana in all of us, and if we look
hard enough, we will find her.
I have just read the comments and I fail to see some people's perspectives.
Diana, whether as an individual or as a Royal has changed not just the UK but
the World. She was a image and icon for many people, and this is positive.
the grief over her death was worldwide, and this display of emotion I believe
has bought people together.
I was in the UK for the month of September 1997, and experienced the feelings.
You could not help but respond emotionally. This is something I have never
experienced before. It was great to see all walks of society showing their
grief to the event. I am sure this has not occurred in a spontaneous manner in
recent years. During the second world war may be close, but Diana was a
individual who was loved by everyone. I hope we can keep this feeling alive,
and allow our feelings between people continue. I found that on my visit to
the UK that it was easier to speak to strangers all over the place. Diana showed
us all what life is all about. Lets keep her way of feeling for others and life
itself on the front burner. Thanks for the chance of making comments, and wish
everyone the best for the NEW YEAR in 1998.
Yes, I think Diana's death has definitely changed Britain. However, I still
feel that her untimely passing seems too convenient for the Royal Family. As
an American, I do not feel that Prince Charles deserves either the throne, or
his country's undying loyalty. And why did it take his wife's death for him
to suddenly turn into such a model father? Would he have done this much if Diana
were still alive? I don't think so! Wake up, England. In this country, we
think you guys might still be better off without that Royal Family!
Diana was no saint. For all the myth and inconsistency involved, we are still
driven to 'buy the story'. The passing of Mother Theresa lends a sobering
perspective to the events last summer, one which we should never forget. It
particularly highlights our obsession with all things glamorous and disbelief
that everyone of us has the ability to contribute profoundly to others.
Whatever the reasons for that week of intense public mourning, its most
important legacy will surely lie with the Princes; a display of support and
concern for their future which they'll never forget.
In spite of the utter tragedy of the death of Diana, Princess of Wales, it
appears life goes on in the UK. There are more tributes to her in the USA!
Princess Diana merely showed the world that the Royals are extremely unemotional
people. It was interesting that the Queen was able to shed a tear for the
decommissioning of the Royal Yacht Britannia. But I didn't see any being shed
for Princess Diana. The recent polls which show that Prince Charles has
regained his popularity are clear evidence that her death hasn't changed
Britain.
The most striking thing about Diana's
death is that it showed how united Britain
can be in the face of calamity and grief,
a feeling which was perhaps last experienced
during the World Wars, and was thus a distant
memory to recent generations. It also
accentuated the need for reform in one
of the great institutions of this land,
the Monarchy.
I don't think Diana's death has changed Britain but the reaction was part of a
worrying trend of hysteria which has been gripping the country for
several years now. I mean by that we have seen over-reaction to such things as
the possession of guns, banning of hunting, over control of food which seems
irrational from a foreign point of view. I worry about the collective mental
health of my country and relieved not to be living in Britain at this time.
I believe her death has permanently altered the Monarchy. They realise they can
no longer be cold and inaccessible to the public, if they wish to continue to
reign. I think that it has also endeared the public to Prince William forever.
They will never look at him as they have to Prince Charles. They'll always
have
respect for him.
Diana's death changed the way the world sees Britain. Britain has now joined
the ranks of countries like North Korea whose citizens mourned their "great
leaders' death with bizarre displays of mass public weeping and hysteria.
Such a display bemuses - and frankly sometimes amuses - the rest of the world.
Britons should not be so self congratulatory about their supposed new found
'emotional maturity' and should recognise that they have become laughable
outside their own country.
Nothing has changed, any good intentions are long forgotten, Let us now leave
the rest of the royals, Charles and his sons in particular carry on with their
lives and stop criticising their every move. They might not be perfect, but
they do a lot of good work, Prince Charles and the Princess Royal
particularly,
but unfortunately this often goes unpublicised.
Diana's death simply highlighted the
tremendous hypocrisy of the British
Public. One day her life was made a misery
by the intense invasion of her private
affairs by a scandal hungry public, the next
we were supposed to be a hugely sensitive
bunch of people. If her death has any effect
on us it should make people consider the effects on public figures lives caused by
buying trashy tabloid papers.
Diana's death helped to reveal the spiritual needs that people in Britain have.
Let's not get too misty eyed here. A young mother of two teenage boys dies in a car crash. Tragic? Yes. Cause for hysteria and national "grief"? No.
The media helped stoke the atmosphere of course, but looking back now
much of what happened afterwards was a bit dispiriting.
People behaving like sheep and "mourning" for a woman that nearly all of them
didn't know and hadn't even met was very depressing and shows that the public
will always live down to the lowest expectations you have of them.
Britain hasn't changed at all. The so-called feelings of togetherness have
evaporated pretty quickly and the country has reverted to its
Post-Thatcherist
type; venal, self-obsessed and shallow. It will take much more than the death
of an adept self-publicist to change things.
I believe that it is only now that Diana is dead that many people really appreciate how great she was and how hard she worked for the different charities that she supported.
Britain will never be the same ever. Diana changed the look of England from being cold and miserable. My wife and I have total respect for Diana today and for ever. God bless her.
Seems like Britain's stiff upper lip has fallen a bit since the incident. It
was remarkable and touching to see such emotion displayed the Brits and the
world.
I am originally from Jamaica, where sometimes we too maintain a "stiff upper
lip". I have never seen any event that would make not just Britain, but the
entire world just fall down in tears. The whole world was in a daze for one
week. I will never forget this as long as I live. I wish Diana was still alive, and we would never have to have such an outpouring. I miss Diana terribly. Peace.
I think the heart of Britain was cracked
open by the incredible loss of Diana. She
was like a priestess who gave voice to the
struggle of balancing formality and
emotion;
heart and duty; shame and courage. She
exposed herself with an eye toward the
higher
good. I felt the British people, and we
Americans,
as cultural satellites, took in the
experience of Diana,
and she in turn worked to bring a
higher and
deeper sense of what it means to be
human.
It has changed attitudes but not those of the Royals. They definitely
appear to be riding Diana's coattails. It just goes
to show what generations of in-breeding will do. I
hope she taught her sons well.
Diana's death and the subsequent unbridled outpouring of grief around the
world, brought home to the Royal family the realisation that the person they
considered a thorn in their side was a rose to millions.
Even though we may not live in the same country or have the same colour skin,
through this tragic death of Diana, we all became one in grieving.
The non-stop, time wasted, over spoken
conversations about Diana's death only show just how bored Britons are with
themselves. Of course nothing has changed.
For the country as a whole I do not think that there are any real changes
because of Diana's death. However, at a personal level, I am sure everybody is
deeply affected in one way or another. Witnessing her marriage, her ups and
downs, and her tragic death makes everyone reflect on his/her own life and the
purposes of it. Diana is undoubtedly in more than one way the most influential
person of our generation.
My client, April MacFadden, a world-renowned Metaphysician predicted the
death of the beloved Princess Di on Jan. 10, 1997 while being interviewed on
radio. Now MacFadden has growing concern about a possible health threat to
either one or both of her children. The threats will come in less than three
months. It is vital that these children are protected at any extreme.
The only change at least in appearance is the way Prince Charles and other
Royals conduct themself with the public but you have to question if they are
sincere or acting only for public approval. It seems now they use Diana's name
everytime they open their mouth. It's disgusting the way they use her now. I
hope the English people will not be fooled by it.
Despite what the media would have
us believe, her life and death are of little consequence to anyone.
Diana's death has changed Britain in the sense that
myth of the infamous "stiff upper lip" has been very powerfully rebutted by
the public's outpouring of grief over her death.
Her impact
on public life was limited, in spite of her celebrity status, so her passing
will not produce any permanent changes. As time goes by, the controversy
surrounding her life will put popular recollection of her in perspective.
Yes, the Monarchy especially as it now recognizes (hopefully) that the public
expects it to be normal.
Diana's death has not changed Britain. What it did was highlight a previously
unseen wave of hysteria that is extremely worrying. People now live in a
hightenned state of angst and are constantly looking at ways of expressing
themselves. It merely reflects the "me, me" society.
It seems to have become almost a morbid
obsession with the media! It's about time we showed some respect and let
her memories be.
In spite of all the public wailing and hand-wringing, the general public
really
don't care that they helped to hound the woman to a tragic death. If they did
care, they wouldn't still be buying The Sun, The Mirror and the other
tabloids.
So no, I don't think Diana's death has changed Britain.
Diana's death did change Britain. Obviously it has changed the monarchy's
stiff upper lip. It shredded the lives of the young prince's, and it put
Charles back into the spotlight, which is where he likes to be.
The reaction to Diana's death
has shown in stark contrast
the spiritual vacuum that exists
in UK PLC. Is it possible
that reflection on Diana's death
can raise our eyes beyond one
unique individual, to see that
there's a God who offers love
and life to all?
Diana's death meant too much to the
people for the British not to reflect upon themselves.
No, Britain was changing anyway. Diana's death had nothing to do with, for
example, the election of Tony Blair, the European Union or even the new tails
on British Airways aircraft.
However, Diana's death did shine a bright light into some rather creepy,
perhaps somewhat neurotic, corners of the British psyche, such as the
excessive, public expressions of "grief". Was it really grief or was it
something else for which the death of Diana provided an outlet?
Britain cannot change as a consequence of Diana or anyone else.
Britain has become a better place since that tragic event in the summer. How could anyone fail to be touched by Diana's death. It's just a shame we don't think like that all the time, but it's my belief that Britain will be more careful how it treats other human beings from now on.
I think the death of Diana, Princess of Wales undoubtedly had a huge affect.
But I think the affect will be shortlived, if it isn't already over. I don't
think we are a more compassionate society as a result, I just think it was an
opportunity for a lot of people to let out some emotion. May be I'm too
cynical but I think Britain is just the same .. people will still be cruel and
heartless and the press will eventually return to its ways. Just wait till
Prince William gets photographed kissing a girl .. what newspaper will be able
to stop themselves.
I can only hope that all of us have taken the tragedy of Diana's
death, learned from her selfless example of charity and good works, and
improved
upon ourselves.
Britain was changing before the death of Diana, and still is. People are
becoming more aware of themselves, of their emotions, and of the world around
them.
The reaction to Dianas death was just a part of the process of emotionally
maturing, as was the removal of the Conservative Party in the summer.
Platitudes and prejudice have no part in our new society, though it is true
that unfairness and inequality will be with us for some time to come.
It made people stop and think short term, but similar things happen every day to families in a position less able to pick themselves up. In the long term it will be no more than a sad and tragic memory. |
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