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Friday, January 2, 1998 Published at 15:30 GMT Talking Point Is it worth making a New Year resolution? Your reaction <% ballot="42485" ' Check nothing is broken broken = 0 if ballot = "" then broken = 1 end if set vt = Server.Createobject("mps.Vote") openresult = vt.Open("Vote", "sa", "") ' Created object? if IsObject(vt) = TRUE then ' Opened db? if openresult = True AND broken = 0 then ballotresult = vt.SetBallotName(ballot) ' read the vote votetotal=(vt.GetVoteCount(ballot, "yes")+vt.GetVoteCount(ballot, "no")) if votetotal <> 0 then ' there are votes in the database numberyes = vt.GetVoteCount(ballot, "yes") numberno = vt.GetVoteCount(ballot, "no") percentyes = Int((numberyes/votetotal)*100) percentno = 100 - percentyes ' fix graph so funny graph heights dont appear 'if percentyes = 0 then ' percentyes = 1 'end if 'if percentno = 0 then ' percentno = 1 'end if else ' summut went wrong frig it numberyes = 0 numberno = 0 percentyes = 50 percentno = 50 end if end if end if %> Votes so far:
1. The BBC website will change the default setting on talking point from "yes" to "no," causing apparently massive swings of opinion.
It's a fine idea, as long as it's approached properly. Over in the
USA, there are frequent TV adverts for (presumably lucrative)
"Psychic Hotline" phone services; at the end of every ad the
small print says "Must be over 18. For entertainment purposes
only." New Year's Resolutions fall into the same category - and
it's cheaper than calling an expensive telephone "psychic"!!!
Yes - it's important to take this annual chance to realise what you would like
to
change, even if you don't stick to your resolutions- you are aware of what
they
are!
I'm going to resolve to take more exercise (in 1999...)
A resolution helps you focus on something that should make a positive difference in your life or somebody else's life.
Yes, one should always have goals, it's the only way we can grow and make life worth living.
If it is something I feel strongly about
I may try harder to stick with it.
Any time of the year the concept of trying to better oneself is good.
I think New Year's resolutions are a good idea
because they are an opportunity to make
a positive difference in your life and
they also help to resolve any problems
you may have.
To make New Year's resolutions is to set yourself up for failure.
The things you want to change take a more constant commitment.
Happy New Year!
Making resolutions helps focus on goals for the New Year. Even if they are only partially fulfilled, something is better than nothing.
The last few years' New Year's resolutions have been good chances to solidify emerging decisions from earlier in the year, as well as to make much needed new ones.
I don't bother making resolutions because you don't keep them anyway and you don't remember them a week or two later anyway.
Making a New Year's resolution is necessary as a reminder to be a better person. As I get older, I often recognise faults of younger people which I used not to. Although middle aged people like myself are supposed to behavee as if they know better, they are not necessary strong and faultless. As a Japanese proverb goes, the heads of well grown wheat bend well. It can be a good starter to reduce our faults one by one every year.
Why make them if I can't (won't) keep them?
It's always worthwhile to perform an annual self-examination of where one is in life, and what improvements can, and should, be made. No, one won't manage all of them, but even one or two is a darn sight better than nothing.
Yes, you have to have something to break, in the New Year!
Instead of just going forward aimlessly, each one of us should set our own goals for the coming year and be guided accordingly in our actions. This is something like having an annual vision statement to guide our path ahead. If indeed, we succeed in achieving our objectives, this would serve to encourage us to plan further ahead. On the other hand, if we fail, at least we can review our actions and thus avoid repeating our mistakes.
Though it largely depends on what
the resolution is and whom one gives
it to, but it is rather nice to
remember one's resolutions, and on 31
of December say to oneself: OK, that's
what I have promised and that's what I have done.
Yes, because positive thinking in these
dark times is very difficult. Cynism is
wide spread. We owe it to our children
to make the world a better place for
all of us. It's one of the moments we
should realise this!
I don't think that any body has the memory capacity to remember their resolutions throughout the year. The mind is too busy solving current problems.
New Year's resolutions are important simply because as humans, we behave better when we set simple goals and work to do our best to achieve them. Goals recenter us upon what's important versus what is not. If we fail to meet our goals, the opportunity is still there to try again or to modify the goals so that they are more meaningful or realistic. I plan to make a few New Year's resolutions: 1. to try not to be so fussy about small matters of no importance and 2. to pay better attention to the needs of others.
I've no idea if it is worth making New Year resolutions. But next year I'll definitely think about it.
It is worth making realistic New Year's resolutions because having achieveable goals ahead of you gives you a more positive and productive view of life.
You need to set goals in order to improve yourself. Without this what is the point of life? This should not be taken as depression or defeatism; no one is perfect.
At least it gives you an opportunity to pause and think whether you want to change anything in your life.
To make so many false promises, at a time of year when we are neither physically, mentally, or financially capable, is a receipe that is doomed for failure.
It's a great idea. A new year, a clean slate, the chance to improve and be perfect for a day or two!
Dr Anusha Arasu
Malaysia
No! Because you make them in the morning and they are forgotten by the evening!
I believe it is very important to make a yearly resolution at the beginning of each new year. It is a mission statement for us to follow through and renew during the forthcoming months.
I resolve not to make any more New Years resolutions.
I think that New Year resolutions can at least give you hope! Once a year, at that particular moment, you fool yourself into believing that you are finally going to accomplish something that you have never been able to. Good psychological therapy I would say.
I feel it gives you a goal.
New Year resolutions are almost impossible to keep. I think it's better to start each day resolved to do better than the day before in areas of one's life that need improvement. It's easier to tackle problems in small increments and there's a real sense of accomplishment if the end of the day brings some semblance of success. On the other hand, if you've made no progress you only have to wait until the next morning to try again!
Of course it is. If nothing else they give people an incentive to do something they've been putting off, such as dieting after the Christmas food binge or stopping smoking.
People tend to set lofty goals for the New Year. When you slip up you feel like a failure.
A person should always make an effort - even if they fail. This is the end of the year, a time to reflect, and naturally think of ways to improve one's self.
It is not worth making New Year resolutions. Making a New Year resolution serves only to point out one's own flaws, which really makes no sense at all.
I wholeheartedly endorse the concept of making New Year resolutions.
It serves to remind me of the imperfections and frailties that make us human, in ones aspiration to better and brighter things.
Why not? It's worth a try! And as they say, if you don't succeed, in this case, there's always next year!
It's one of those tricks we use to delude ourselves into thinking we can become better people. If we really want to change, we will do so - and we will not need or use the false prop of New Year to prompt us.
There's no harm, but I think we need to be honest with ourselves. Do we just make these resolutions because it's expected of us at this time of the year? Do we really think we are going to stick to them? |
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